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Thank you, Lovers, for your patience. Here are some snippets of erotica I wrote after being inspired by your Confessions. The Confession: I wish you had been here. I was hoping to bump into you. Things haven’t been the same since we last saw each other but then again, how could they be? We were [...]

This is not a book review. It just happened to be the trigger. For the past week, I’ve been immersed in the Tina Fey book Bossypants. I can’t say I’ve been a fan of her works since the beginning of her career (or her subsequent eight year run on Saturday Night Live) but once I started watching 30 [...]

I’m inspired by a play I saw tonight. Set in 1963, The Magic Bullet Theory was a fun who-shot-JFK ride rich with witty dialogue. One topic that came up several times was blowjobs. One man-character says “women were put on this earth for 2 reasons: to suck our dicks and take our balls.” Now, contextually, that [...]

My voice was on the radio this week on “The Dating Advice Girl Show” with Erin Tillman for the sex episode. I  had a great time sharing my top tips for hookups and new relationships. At one point, Erin posed an interesting question: “How many erogenous zones are there?” Well,  I knew the answer right [...]

Update: Sorry lovers, confessions artwork is a bit behind schedule. It will be posted the moment it’s complete. Thanks for your patience! As part of the 4th Annual X and O Show, we had a confession box for guests to spill the beans on their raciest sexual adventures. And oh boy, did we get some [...]

Thank you all for another beautiful X and O Show. Thanks to J.Sinclaire for bringing the whole thing together with grace, Natasha Kudashkina for the amazing body paint display, Roy for hair, and every artist and attendee. We love you. See more pictures by Mondo Lulu from the X and O Show Kissing Booth!

Come One, Come All, Come Often… Celebrate Affection and Erotica Call for Submissions ends today, February 8th at midnight. Send in your stuff ASAP! Presented by Lover Magazine, the X and O SHOW is a public display of affection, from suggestive to erotic art. The event includes: Art display/auction – Proceeds of auction go to [...]

I don’t mean to get all Sarah Jessica Parker here, but as mentioned on my podcast I’m freshly exploring the single world. Never would I have imagined how DIFFERENT the single girl’s sex life can be from that of a close companionship. It’s a wholly separate skill set! The juxtaposition is startling. Sex in a relationship was [...]

Come One, Come All, Come Often… Celebrate Affection and Erotica Presented by Lover Magazine, the X and O SHOW is a public display of affection, from suggestive to erotic art. The event includes the art display/auction, interactive audience art pieces, kissing booth, dancing and more! Proceeds of auction go towards local sex positive charities. Where: [...]

I have to share this. It’s technically a documentary, but it feels more like 8 minutes of tender, sexy truth. The soundtrack is rad, the painter, Alberto Mielgo, is so very pure in his joy of women and to see Belladonna intimately expressing what goes through her mind before having sex is sublime. A must [...]

Last night I taught a class on female pleasure and without planning to, I ended up sharing with the crowd of 30 or so folks something I’ve been working on the last few weeks. It’s a sex technique/model/concept to use in one’s pleasure of oneself and others. And it goes like this: Use these 7 [...]

Photographer- J.Sinclaire Model- J.Sinclaire Location- Toronto Q&A with the photographer Aside from the shower/changing and sex how often are you nude? A: As often as possible! Whether it’s at home or on the beach, I’m most comfortable nude. I’ve posed nude a few times and found the experience thrilling. Seeing how someone else interprets your [...]