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Leaving Lover

22 Nov

Burlesque performers leaving a trail of sequins and red lipstick kisses, cinnamon candy lips and lollipops, photo shoots with beautiful women lounging around half naked, police warnings to make our musicians turn down their volume in the middle of performing, not to mention some people so offended by Lover magazine being a women’s sexuality magazine, [...]

The Women’s Change Room

3 Nov

I took three young girls to the swimming pool today, one was mine. The women’s change room is the only place out of my home and in sexual situations where I go naked. Reason being, I’m comfortable keeping to myself. The youngest of the two sisters that were with me, staring at my areola, said [...]

Orgasmic Pregnancy

2 Nov

Hi, Sex Nerds. Want your mind blown? Below is the video my guest, Lara Catone mentioned after I asked her about orgasm during childbirth. I don’t know if this is possible for every female body, but I do appreciate that this broadens the public conscious on birthing experiences from the straight up pain paradigm. I [...]

La Dolce Vita

29 Oct

Life is about changes; ironically it’s the only constant.  Now that the dog days of summer are officially over and a new season begins, the choice is clear, either I mourn the end of a season or I celebrate the start of a new one. I ‘d rather open-heartedly welcome in fall and all the [...]

Bare Woman #1

29 Oct

Photographer- Vanessa Badu Model- Ila Producer- Dainty Smith Location- Toronto Lover presents you with our first Bare Woman Q&A with the model Aside from the shower/changing and sex how often are you nude? A: In the winter i almost never get naked unless necessary cos I’m always cold, in the Spring/Summer, I spend at least [...]

Bare Women

27 Oct

I dare you to be naked, bare, free and whole. I propose you pose naked for a photo shoot in the comforting company of a friend or loved one by December 31, 2011. You aren’t allowed to wait either; you are perfect right now because you are you in every moment. Ladies, get together and [...]

Playground Conference- A November Sex Event in Toronto

26 Oct

Playground is a noteworthy event taking place this coming November 4-6 at the Gladstone. PLAYGROUND CONFERENCE is a multi- faceted look at relationships and sexuality with a great lineup of speakers, panels and workshops to choose from for a fun filled sexy weekend. See details here. Toronto, Ontario …………………..

THE QUICK POLL: Do you masturbate with your dominant hand?

5 Oct

This evening I received an email from a right-handed listener who goes at it with their left: “I would think that people would use their dominant hand, but I’m right handed and I always use my left hand to masturbate.  It makes me wonder if I’m unusual in that regard or if being right or [...]

Slowing it Down

26 Sep

When something is amiss in one’s sex life, often we want to fix the issue quickly and MOVE ON! As a sex educator and pleasure coach, I encourage others to take the time and move slow, but do I do that myself? No. Not usually. I am simultaneously busy and lazy. Which means I don’t [...]

Wendy Babcock’s Memorial & Celebration of her life!

11 Sep

Time Reposted from Facebook. Thursday, September 15 at 6:00pm – September 16 at 2:00am Location Allen Gardens & Buddies In Bad Times Theatre – TORONTO Created By Tori Scout, Lorie Steer, Morgan M PageShow all (12) More Info 6pm – 8pm Memorial – dinner will be served at Allen Gardens Park (Carlton/Sherbourne) followed by the [...]

Can A Person Be A Sex Worker Rights Activist While Not Enjoying Sex Work Themselves?

4 Sep

I have to get something off my breasts, er… my chest. At the risk of alienating members of the sex-positive feminist movement (which I have no desire to do), I have to admit that although I am a sex worker rights activist, and moreover, a former sex worker myself, I have never enjoyed sex work. [...]

Hot Sox: Eco-Menstruation and Period Sex

30 Aug

Yeah, the Hot Sox podcast is back and this week we’re seeing red (RIP Jani Lane). Periods! Blood! Sex! Menstrual Pads! Diva cups! That’s what we talk about live (at the time of taping) from Vancouver, BC. I hope you’re ready for an honest conversation around menstruation because that’s what you’ll get on this week’s Hot Sox [...]